9 Techniques For More Pleasurable Masturbation
Even if you're a masturbation pro, there are still ways to
spruce up your technique. Like having sex, there are many ways to masturbate
and adding new things to your usual menu of choices is a great way to keep
things exciting. Here are some tips, in Honor of National Masturbation Month:
1. Tool. Some
women prefer their hands, others their collection of vibrators, and, as a few
of my friends will attest to, a shower head with appropriate pressure can also
be a great clit pleaser. If you're usually a shower or vibrator person, try
just your hand for a change and vice versa. You don't really know just how hard
you can orgasm if you don't try different tools for satisfaction.
2. Mood. For many people, masturbation is a means
to put horniness to an end or to relieve stress, but why should it stop there?
If you're having a horrible day, masturbate to take your mind off things and
set your mood right. Or if you have pain in some part of your body,
masturbating, again, can take your mind off that pain, at least for a few
minutes, and do some heavy-duty soothing.
3. Location. I have friends who LOVE to
masturbate during the work day, and do so on a regular basis. They love it for
both the excitement of possibly getting caught (don't know why you'd want your
boss to possibly see that, but I digress), and because it breaks up the day
quite nicely. There also those who do it during long car rides, in public and a
whole slew of other places. Basically, for some, when the urge is there, they
slip their hand in their undies and go for the rubdown.
4. Buddy. Mutual masturbation, although it may
seem difficult at first, is really fun. If you and your partner are comfortable
enough, take a spot on the floor, couch or wherever, then throw in some dirty
talk and you've got yourself a party. Stimulating yourself while your partner
does the same is really hot and provides for some intense anticipation of what
might be next.
5. Time. If you usually masturbate before bed,
why not try it in the morning, before work? Starting your day with an orgasm is
practically a guarantee for a day of pleasant thoughts
6. Stimulation. Whether it's music that turns you
on (Marvin Gaye, anyone?), porn or whatever outside source it takes you get you
feeling frisky, don't forget to include it. Just because you're reaching climax
solo style doesn't mean you should ignore outside aspects that will enhance
your experience.
7. Exploration. Don't just focus on your
clitoris! Yes, many more women than not experience clitoral orgasms as opposed
to vaginal and G spot related ones, but they do exist! Your time alone with
your body is your time to explore your goodies and see exactly what feels best
and how to get to that feeling.
8. Fantasize. You have an imagination for a
reason. Sure, it's for more than just imaging Ryan Gosling throwing you over
the couch and giving you the ol' in-out, but it also doesn't hurt to put it
into overdrive when you're masturbating. Shut your eyes and let your fantasies
unravel.
9. Be a tease. Men will tell you being a tease is
no fun — well for them, no, but when you're masturbating, don't be afraid to
tease yourself. If you're not in a rush, bring yourself to the brink of orgasm,
then stop yourself. The stronger the build up and tension you can create, the
greater the sensation will be. This is another technique that you'll be able to
incorporate into your sex life, especially if you have a wee bit of dominance
play going on between the sheets.
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